newcastle, nsw, ladys ect........

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  1. zedi and smiley

    zedi and smiley New Member

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    i must be weird or something, i am 34 owned 2 cars, got 2 kids, and a hubby that is strange to say the least, his family hates me after almost 8.5 years of being married to their son, my hubby rob doesn't like me talking to men in person about my car and he hates what i want to do to it, but he wont do ANYTHING to it for me, i am so bloody board and lacking intelligance, that i have left, i love cars and really the zed really apelled to me, when we had it, my thinking of my ford s/w and doing it up, is it dumb or what, yes i am haveing a bad day month year what ever, i know what i want but can not have it.

    can all the ladys/ girls with/ without kids meet somewhere with our cars and have a picnic i need to breathe and get out more and get a life again.
    even though i am married and got kids i need to get out more instead of waiting to get on line on the weekends to talk to something.

    :(:unsure::embarrassed::unsure::embarrassed:
     
  2. BlueZ

    BlueZ Oldie but a goodie

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    Sounds like Lou needs to take you to a bar

    so you can get really drunk.
    What do you reckon Lou, up for bit of 'social work'?
    See ya,
    Garry
     
  3. Tektrader

    Tektrader Z32 Hoe, service me baby

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    Sounds like you need help bad

    Having pent up emotions like that and not being able to express them cost me a marriage when my wife left.

    Does your husband really know how you feel? Hun, you gotta do something and quick before issues like this screw your life.

    Kids and a life at home as a mum can have a pretty degrading affect on your personality. One where you tend to feel you have lost yourself.

    There are ways to sort this but you have to be proactive about it, and not let it eat you away.
     
  4. OZ-300

    OZ-300 Godfather

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    If your partner's in the Services, then I'm sure there would be plenty of

    support available to you.

    Where are you - Newcastle - RAAF Base?

    Cheers,

    Peter
     
  5. Lou

    Lou New Member

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    Sorry zedi, I only just saw this post....

    Ive sent you a PM. :)
     
  6. zedi and smiley

    zedi and smiley New Member

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    up date....

    because of his family,him, and my love of you know what, and my s00 drive has gone up he dont like it any more.
    so i am just fed up i am giveing my self untill the end of july and i am leaveing as he just worrys about his family and friends to much now in stead of the kids and me.
    and beleive it or not he is so worried about me going off with someone i have to drag the kids around with me every where and he is not in the services but i live at a place called mallabula near salt ash and william town (crying)
    where there are great looking guys and gals but i dont want that, i just want a zed and s00 off him but he wont give that out any more either.(crying)
    i am sorry bout this peoples can you take me and hubby off and i will join up as
     
  7. zed4life (zedcare.com)

    zed4life (zedcare.com) Ω vicarious zedder Ω

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    Zedi, have you thought about speaking to a counsellor

    about this? You have a lot going on in your life right now that probably can't be resolved online. Everyone at times needs a professional to help them through difficult times.

    You wouldn't think twice about getting medical attention for one of the kids ...think of this as one of those times.

    take care and all the best:thumbsup:
     

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